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Clever Characters

When I created this blog I picked the name CLEVER CHARACTERS because both words and life are made up of characters that have left me changed, usually in a good way. I am hoping to update more often and share with you the world as seen by me.

NEW JOB:
I am loving it!!!! I have clients from Laos, Vietnam, Mexico, Honduras and even Chicago. Those from foreign countries have incredible stories of immigration. I am learning about their cultures and their heritage and hopefully helping shape their legacy.

The other half of my class are Americans who have caught some rough breaks and are now seeking life skills and strategies to pass the GED. Some are trapped in the pain of their past and do not trust me to help them walk into their future. It is easier for them to goof off and know they will fail than it is to actually make the first attempt toward success.

KATIE BETH:
I am thrilled to share that KB is thriving in her new school. I have seen a marked difference in her confidence. This improved self esteem has allowed her to blossom in her art and riding. I am looking forward to her next horse show in a few weeks.

BRAD:
Brad has a tooth ache which apparently causes the volume of his snoring to increase by one hundred fold. (-:

Brad made the observation last night that you should not transform a gym into an auditorium for the PTA program until you can make the smell of gym socks go away. PTA moms out there take note: hot dog and gym sock ambiance is a BAD combo.

FRIENDS & FAMILY:
I know a lot of folks walking through a very hard time right now. Here is a favorite verse I have been sharing."I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you" Ezekiel 36:26 This video is a song I find very encouraging too. Love these words!!!

And remember...It's never too late to be who you want to be.

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